DIY Non-greasy Mango Butter Leave-In Hair Conditioner for Dry, Frizzy Hair

Updated: November 11, 2025

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If your hair feels dry, frizzy, or lifeless, this DIY Non-greasy Mango Butter Leave-In Hair Conditioner is exactly what it needs. Formulated with rich mango butter and argan oil, this non-greasy conditioner deeply nourishes and smooths your strands while taming frizz and adding shine. The conditioning power of BTMS-50 makes your hair softer, more manageable, and tangle-free, while lavender essential oil provides a calming, fresh scent and promotes scalp health. Lightweight yet deeply moisturizing, this natural leave-in conditioner is perfect for dry, damaged, or curly hair — keeping it silky, hydrated, and beautifully healthy all day long.

Let’s take a look at the hair benefits of the ingredients used in DIY Non-greasy Mango Butter Leave-In Hair Conditioner for Dry, Frizzy Hair.

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Benefits of DIY Non-greasy Mango Butter Leave-In Hair Conditioner for Dry, Frizzy Hair

BTMS-50

BTMS-50 (Behentrimonium Methosulfate) is a gentle conditioning emulsifier derived from rapeseed oil. While it’s primarily used to blend oil and water in emulsions, it also has unique benefits that make it perfect for anhydrous (no-water) formulas like whipped leave-in conditioners and hair butters.

Key Benefits Of BTMS-50 For Hair

powerful conditioning agent and emulsifier that gives hair long-lasting softness and smoothness.
Reduces tangles, frizz, and static by coating hair strands with a thin, moisturizing layer.
Adds slip, making combing and styling easier without breakage.
Keeps the product non-greasy, creamy, and easy to apply.

Why Add BTMS-50 To An Anhydrous (no-water) Recipe?

Why Add BTMS-50 to an Anhydrous Leave-In Conditioner	Explanation
1. Provides Slip and Detangling	Even without water, BTMS-50’s conditioning action reduces friction between hair strands, making detangling easier and minimizing breakage — ideal for dry, curly, or textured hair.
2. Softens and Smooths the Hair Shaft	Deposits a thin, positively charged layer onto the negatively charged hair surface, making hair feel silky, smooth, and frizz-free.
3. Non-Greasy Conditioning Effect	Unlike heavy oils or butters, BTMS-50 provides lasting softness and moisture without greasiness or buildup, leaving a lightweight finish.
4. Improves Product Texture	In anhydrous (no-water) formulas, BTMS-50 helps create a creamy, stable, and easily spreadable consistency — preventing the butter from feeling waxy or oily.
5. Long-Lasting Conditioning	BTMS-50 binds directly to the hair shaft, ensuring its conditioning effect lasts until the next wash, keeping hair manageable and moisturized longer.

Mango Butter

Deeply moisturizes dry, brittle hair while keeping it lightweight.
Contains vitamins A, C, and E, which protect against damage and improve elasticity.
Smooths rough cuticles, making hair soft and shiny.
Excellent for restoring moisture balance in heat-damaged or colored hair.

Cocoa Butter

Rich in fatty acids that strengthen and protect the hair shaft.
Locks in moisture by forming a natural barrier around each strand.
Improves hair elasticity and prevents split ends.
Adds structure and thickness to the conditioner, ensuring a creamy, stable texture.

Argan Oil

Known as “liquid gold,” it deeply hydrates and repairs damaged hair.
Rich in vitamin E and omega-6 fatty acids, which boost shine and reduce frizz.
Strengthens hair fibers and reduces breakage.
Lightweight and easily absorbed — leaves no greasy residue.

Sunflower Oil

A lightweight oil that softens and smooths hair without heaviness.
Rich in linoleic acid and vitamin E, it nourishes the scalp and prevents dryness.
Helps improve manageability and natural shine.
Perfect for balancing the heavier butters in the formula.

Vitamin E Oil

Strengthens hair follicles and prevents breakage by improving scalp circulation.
Protects hair from oxidative stress and UV damage.
Keeps oils fresh longer by slowing oxidation, extending the shelf life of your product.

Lavender Essential Oil

Calms scalp irritation and promotes hair growth by improving blood flow to hair follicles.
Has natural antimicrobial properties that reduce dandruff and scalp buildup.
Adds a soothing, floral aroma that enhances relaxation and self-care.
Keeps hair smelling fresh and clean naturally.

How To Make DIY Non-Greasy Mango Butter Leave-In Hair Conditioner for Dry, Frizzy Hair

DIY Non-greasy Mango Butter Leave-In Hair Conditioner for Dry, Frizzy Hair

This DIY Non-greasy Mango Butter Leave-In Hair Conditioner blends the nourishing richness of mango and cocoa butter with the lightweight hydration of argan and sunflower oils. BTMS-50 adds salon-quality conditioning, leaving hair silky, smooth, and frizz-free — without greasiness. Ideal for dry, damaged, or curly hair, it locks in moisture, enhances shine, and makes your hair beautifully manageable every day.

Author: Mamta

Recipe type: DIY, Beauty

Cuisine: Leave-in Hair Conditioner

Ingredients

Heated Oil Phase

10g BTMS-50
45g Mango Butter
10g Cocoa Butter
10g Argan Oil
30g Sunflower Oil

Cool Down Phase

0.5g Vitamin E Oil
0.5g Lavender Essential Oil

TOTAL = 100 grams

Instructions

Fill a pot with 1–2 inches of water. Place a heat-safe glass bowl on top, ensuring it doesn’t touch the water.
Add heated oil phase ingredients into the bowl. Gently melt over low heat, stirring occasionally until smooth.
Once melted, remove from heat.
Let the mixture cool slightly until it begins to thicken but is not solid, around room temperature or cooler. Or you can keep it in the refrigerator for about 30-40 minutes until the mixture becomes soft, thick, and opaque.
Use a hand mixer or stand mixer to whip the mixture for 5–7 minutes until fluffy and creamy.
Now, add cool-down phase ingredients. Whip again briefly to incorporate.
Spoon into a clean, airtight container. Store in a cool, dry place.

HOW TO APPLY

Scoop out a pea-sized amount for short hair or a dime-to-quarter size for longer hair.
Rub the conditioner between your palms until it softens and melts into a smooth, creamy consistency.
Gently work the conditioner through your hair, focusing on mid-lengths to ends — where dryness, frizz, and damage are most common.
Use your fingers or a wide-tooth comb to spread the conditioner evenly throughout your hair.
Apply a tiny amount to dry ends during the week to tame frizz or add shine.

Notes

1. Start small: A little goes a long way with anhydrous creams.
2. Use 1–2 times per week, depending on your hair’s needs.
3. Don’t apply directly to the scalp unless treating dryness. It may clog pores and make roots oily.
4. Don’t use high heat immediately after application. Heat can damage hair and reduce the conditioner’s benefits.
5. Store in a cool, dry place to maintain texture and consistency.
6. Always do a patch test before using any DIY products.

Frequently Asked Questions

Question	Answer
1. Can I use this leave-in conditioner every day?	Yes, you can! This lightweight, non-greasy formula is safe for daily use. However, if you have fine or oily hair, apply it 2–3 times a week or only to the ends to avoid buildup.
2. Should I apply it to wet or dry hair?	It works best on clean, damp hair after washing. Applying to damp hair helps seal in moisture, reduces frizz, and makes the hair soft and manageable. You can also use a tiny amount on dry hair to smooth flyaways.
3. Do I need to rinse it out?	No — this is a leave-in conditioner, meaning it stays on your hair to keep it moisturized and protected until your next wash.
4. Will this make my hair greasy or heavy?	No, when used in moderation. The BTMS-50 and sunflower oil ensure a non-greasy, lightweight finish. Start with a small amount and increase only if your hair feels too dry.
5. Can I use this on curly or textured hair?	Absolutely! This leave-in is excellent for curly, wavy, or coily hair because it provides lasting moisture, defines curls, and reduces frizz without making them limp.
6. Why is BTMS-50 added in a no-water (anhydrous) recipe?	BTMS-50 is a conditioning emulsifier that attaches to the hair shaft even without water. It helps detangle, soften, and smooth hair while making the butter creamy, spreadable, and non-greasy — a must-have in anhydrous conditioners.
7. How long does this DIY leave-in conditioner last?	Since it contains no water, it can last 6 months when stored in a cool, dry place. Vitamin E also helps extend shelf life by preventing oil oxidation. Always use clean, dry fingers or a spoon to avoid contamination.
8. Can I change the essential oil?	Yes! You can replace lavender essential oil with rosemary (for growth), peppermint (for scalp refresh), or geranium (for balancing). Keep the total essential oil use around 0.5–1% for scalp safety.
9. Why is my conditioner too hard or too soft?	If it’s too hard, increase liquid oils or reduce cocoa butter. If too soft, add a bit more butter or cetyl alcohol. Ambient temperature can also affect texture — store in a cool place to keep it stable.
10. Can I use this conditioner on color-treated hair?	Yes! The natural ingredients — like mango butter, argan oil, and BTMS-50 — are gentle and safe for color-treated and chemically processed hair, helping restore moisture and shine.
11. Do I need a preservative in this recipe?	No preservative is needed since it’s an anhydrous (no water) formula. Just make sure your tools, jars, and hands are completely dry when making and using it.
12. What hair types can use this conditioner?	Best suited for dry, frizzy, curly, or damaged hair. Those with fine or oily hair can still use it sparingly on mid-lengths and ends for smoothness and shine.
13. Can I use this as a heat protectant?	It provides light protection from heat due to the oils and butters forming a moisture barrier, but it’s not a full heat protectant. Use a dedicated heat protectant spray before high-heat styling.
14. Why does my leave-in conditioner feel grainy?	Graininess can occur if the butters (especially mango or cocoa) cool unevenly. To fix it, re-melt the conditioner, cool it quickly in the fridge to a slushy texture, then re-whip for a smooth finish.
15. How much should I apply?	Start with a pea-sized amount for short hair or a dime-sized amount for longer hair. Add more only if your hair feels dry — a little goes a long way!