DIY Emulsified Kaolin Clay Balm-to-Milk Face Cleanser
If you’re looking for a cleanser that removes makeup, excess oil, and impurities without stripping your skin, this DIY Emulsified Kaolin Clay Balm-to-Milk Face Cleanser is a perfect choice. Made with gentle kaolin clay and nourishing oils, it deeply cleanses pores, provides mild exfoliation, and transforms into a silky milk when mixed with water for easy rinsing. Suitable for all skin types, it leaves your skin feeling clean, soft, refreshed, and never greasy.

What Is a Balm-to-Milk Cleanser?
A balm-to-milk cleanser is an oil-based facial cleanser that starts as a solid or semi-solid balm and transforms into a silky, milky lotion when it comes into contact with water. The nourishing oils in the balm dissolve makeup, sunscreen, excess sebum, and other oil-based impurities, while the emulsifier allows everything to rinse away easily without leaving behind a greasy residue.
Get this recipe/post delivered to your inbox 📩
Busy right now? I’ll send this straight to your inbox so it’s waiting for you later. Read it anytime — no searching for it again.
Unlike many traditional cleansers that can leave the skin feeling tight or dry, a balm-to-milk cleanser cleanses gently while helping maintain the skin’s natural moisture barrier. This makes it an excellent choice for dry, mature, sensitive, and even acne-prone skin.
Let’s take a look at the ingredients and their benefits used in making a DIY emulsified kaolin clay balm-to-milk face cleanser.
Benefits Of DIY Emulsified Kaolin Clay Balm-to-Milk Face Cleanser
Fractionated Coconut Oil
- Absorption Rate: Fast  | Comedogenic Rating: 1/5
- A lightweight, non-greasy oil that effectively dissolves makeup, sunscreen, excess sebum, and daily impurities.
- Helps cleanse the skin without stripping away its natural moisture, making it suitable for all skin types.
- Leaves the skin feeling soft, smooth, and hydrated after cleansing.
Castor Oil
- Absorption Rate: Slow  | Comedogenic Rating: 1/5
- Rich in ricinoleic acid, castor oil helps dissolve excess oil, dirt, and stubborn makeup from deep within the pores.
- Supports deep pore cleansing while helping maintain the skin’s natural moisture barrier.
- Particularly beneficial in oil cleansers because it provides a thorough cleanse without over-drying the skin.
Cetearyl Alcohol
- A fatty alcohol that thickens the cleanser and creates a rich, balm-like consistency.
- Improves spreadability and leaves the skin feeling soft and conditioned after cleansing.
- Helps stabilize the formula and gives the cleanser a luxurious texture.
Emulsifying Wax NF
- Allows the cleansing balm to transform into a silky milk when mixed with water.
- Helps rinse away dissolved makeup, sunscreen, excess oil, and impurities without leaving a greasy residue.
- Creates a gentle cleansing experience suitable for sensitive, acne-prone, and mature skin.
Kaolin Clay
- Gently absorbs excess oil and removes dirt and impurities from deep within the pores.
- Provides mild exfoliation to lift away dead skin cells and improve skin texture.
- Leaves the skin clean, smooth, and refreshed without causing excessive dryness, making it suitable for sensitive skin.
Vitamin E Oil
- Absorption Rate: Moderate to Slow  | Comedogenic Rating: 2/5
- A powerful antioxidant that helps protect the skin from environmental stress.
- Supports the skin’s moisture barrier, preventing dryness after cleansing.
- Also helps extend the shelf life of the oils in the cleanser by reducing oxidation.
Lavender Essential Oil
- Absorption Rate: Fast  | Comedogenic Rating: 0/5
- Known for its soothing and calming properties, making it ideal for sensitive skin.
- Helps refresh the skin while complementing the cleanser’s deep-cleansing action.
- Adds a relaxing natural fragrance while supporting a healthy-looking complexion.
How To Make DIY Emulsified Kaolin Clay Balm-to-Milk Face Cleanser

- 23g Fractionated Coconut Oil
- 7.5g Castor Oil
- 4g Cetearyl Alcohol
- 4g Emulsifying Wax NF
- 11g Kaolin Clay
- 0.5g Vitamin E Oil
- 10 drops Lavender Essential Oil
- Make sure that your container and all utensils are very clean when you make this. Clean everything with hot soapy water, then swab with rubbing alcohol and let air dry.
- Make a double boiler by adding a few inches of water in a deep pan. Heat the pan on a low flame.
- In a heat-safe glass container, combine all the heated oil phase ingredients and place the glass container in the prepared deep pan containing water.
- Stir occasionally until everything is melted and combined.
- Remove the container from the double boiler.
- Gradually sprinkle the kaolin clay into the warm oil mixture while stirring continuously.
- Mix thoroughly until the clay is fully dispersed and no lumps remain.
- Now, add the cool-down phase ingredients. Mix well.
- Immediately pour the oil mixture into a glass or tin container and let this mixture cool until it’s at room temperature. Or you can keep it in the refrigerator for about 30-40 minutes until the mixture becomes soft and thick.
- Store in a cool, dry place.
- Lasts for 6 months since it’s an anhydrous (no-water) formula.
- Always use clean, dry fingers or a small spatula to avoid introducing moisture or bacteria.
- Scoop a small amount of balm with clean, dry fingers or a cosmetic spatula.
- Massage onto dry skin to dissolve makeup, sunscreen, excess oil, and impurities.
- Add a small amount of warm water and continue massaging until the balm turns into a silky milk.
- Rinse thoroughly with lukewarm water and gently pat your skin dry.
2. Do not exceed recommended usage. Essential oils are potent and can irritate skin in high concentrations.
3. Avoid using if allergic to any ingredient (e.g., nuts in shea butter, cornstarch sensitivity, etc.).
4. Essential oils should be used cautiously during pregnancy. Consult your doctor if unsure.
5. Avoid introducing water into the jar. Water can lead to bacterial growth, especially in preservative-free recipes.
Â
Frequently Asked Questions
| Question | Answer |
|---|---|
| What is a balm-to-milk face cleanser? | A balm-to-milk cleanser is an oil-based cleanser that melts away makeup, sunscreen, excess oil, and dirt. When water is added, it transforms into a milky lotion that rinses away easily without leaving a greasy residue. |
| Is this cleanser suitable for all skin types? | Yes. Kaolin clay gently cleanses the skin, while the nourishing oils help prevent dryness, making this cleanser suitable for most skin types, including sensitive and mature skin. |
| Can this cleanser help with acne-prone skin? | Yes. It helps dissolve excess sebum, makeup, and impurities that can clog pores. However, it is not a treatment for acne and should be followed with a gentle water-based cleanser if desired. |
| Does kaolin clay exfoliate the skin? | Yes. Kaolin clay provides gentle physical exfoliation by helping lift away dead skin cells while absorbing excess oil and impurities from the skin’s surface. |
| Can I use this cleanser every day? | Yes. It is gentle enough for daily use and can be used morning and evening as the first step in your cleansing routine. |
| Why is Emulsifying Wax NF added to this cleanser? | Emulsifying Wax NF allows the balm to transform into a silky milk when mixed with water. This helps lift away makeup, sunscreen, and oils so they rinse off easily without leaving a greasy film on the skin. |
| Can I substitute Emulsifying Wax NF? | No. Emulsifying Wax NF is essential for the balm-to-milk effect. Without it, the cleanser will remain oily and will not emulsify or rinse away properly with water. |
| Why is Cetearyl Alcohol added to this cleanser? | Cetearyl alcohol thickens the cleanser, gives it a smooth balm texture, improves spreadability, and helps create a luxurious skin feel during cleansing. |
| Can I substitute Cetearyl Alcohol? | Yes. You can replace it with cetyl alcohol for a slightly lighter balm or Stearic Acid for a firmer texture. The consistency of the cleanser may change slightly depending on the substitute used. |
| Why is my cleanser too hard? | The cleanser may be too firm if it contains too much cetearyl alcohol or if it is stored in a cool room. For a softer balm, reduce the cetearyl alcohol by 2 grams in your next batch. |
| Why is my cleanser too soft or runny? | If the cleanser is too soft, remelt it and add 2 grams of cetearyl alcohol. Stir until completely melted, then allow it to cool before pouring it back into the container. |
| Can I substitute fractionated coconut oil? | Yes. Lightweight oils such as sunflower oil, jojoba oil, grapeseed oil, or safflower oil can be used, although the texture and cleansing feel may differ slightly. |
| Can I substitute castor oil? | Yes. You can replace castor oil with jojoba oil or sunflower oil, but the cleanser may not dissolve heavy makeup and sunscreen quite as effectively. |
| Can I substitute kaolin clay? | Yes. White Australian clay or French white clay are suitable alternatives. Avoid highly absorbent clays like bentonite if you have dry or sensitive skin, as they can be more drying. |
| Why is vitamin E oil added? | Vitamin E acts as an antioxidant that helps slow the oxidation of the oils, extending the shelf life of the cleanser while also providing skin-conditioning benefits. |
| How should I store this cleanser? | Store it in a clean, airtight container away from direct sunlight, heat, and moisture. Avoid introducing water into the container during use. |
| How long does this cleanser last? | Since this is a water-free formulation, it generally lasts as long as the ingredient with the shortest shelf life when stored properly. |
| Should I perform a patch test? | Yes. Always perform a patch test 24 hours before using any new skincare product, especially if it contains essential oils. |


